Which one to follow?

a) follow the original plan which been agreed between me & her but due to her recent new plan, she said willing to go with original plan but she will not guarantee me her satisfaction & willingness if we do choose to follow the original plan. I knew her very well if she had to sacrifice her option, she will kept the pain of that by not sharing with me, which i am against with.

b) follow her new plan? she already knew any amendment to any of my plan will make me uncomfortable since i am the guy that follow the plan bcoz any plan to be accept, will be fully discussed. now should she worry if i am not ready for her new plan? i am the guy which always stick to my word.

c) follow my own final option? which she not accept this option at all. for me, this is the best option we both had since nobody have to sacrifice. this only for 7-8 hours period only.

it is not an issue of who should sacrifice... all the past things were done with my willingness as it part or my responsibilty to her. marriage life is a new world to us, but if any one of us have to sacrifice..it need, should and must be done with the full of willingness and from the bottom of own heart... accept it as a team decision and not a decision from one which the another one have to follow. Sayang, if u read this...i hope u will give on second thought if u are going to stick with the original plan... i do not want u to do it if ur heart not willing to do so. it is the most important day of our life, it should go smooth, full of joy, excitement... any unwillingness action on this day will ruin the sweetness of this historical day. Sayang, i luv u so much... i know you will choose what is the best... will wait for ur decision.

me left confuse alone since last nite and asking this question to myself "where did i got it wrong this time?"....